Kwik Kim Tjoen's 5th Family Reunion (KBKKT)

Again,The Big Family Gathering
it was start from 2 - 4th July 2009
Pondok Remaja Salib Putih, Salatiga

To Honour our Ancestor Kwik KimTjoen, my Great Grand Father,Fyi: there's a unique things from these, my grand mother was the 5th childs of Kwik KimTjoen's Great grand father's, and my mother is th 13th child of my grandmother's, and me, was the 2nd child of my mother.
And So, I have the Code from the family 05.13.02 A . The 'A' means 'anak' son or daughter, so anyone who'll be my future husband also will get the Code as 05.13.02 M. 'M' means 'menantu' the in laws. So as you can see, im in the 3rd generation of this family.

We have been doing this reunion since 9 years, once in every two years.

The whole family



No Matter What, Family always comes First


My GrandMother Family



Just Happy and Fun
and there are more additional members in the 5th generations..

this years is full of babies...
babies, babies and babies

Brooklyn Bridge

Thank you for much help from my fella, Lia, she's the master of the blogs stuff
i've been crumbling on my messy blog, and finally today i found a new look,
by myself, because many times, me, have been disturbing my baby, Lia,
i was too picky bout the layout,
i feel sorry baby :(

So, in the end, we should do by our self to show what we really are, because only me who know me better than anyone...
i still remember the past layouts of the blog that i've been using to, as time goes by,
yes it change, as i grew old,many things has grown up also, more mature inside, outside, and in the mindset. Finally i'm stepping to the new phase of mine life,

I love this new look, the brooklyn bridge, the layout,
really representing of all the souls in mine life :)

I don't love you no more (maybe)

i don't love you no more ( maybe)
just still thinking bout your mom, the Queen bee
im just feel curious bout her, how's she's gonna be ?
she's been in my prays for all this time, just as i pray for my mommy
(im sure that u'll gonna facing this surprisingly)
even seems like i didn't care, but deep down, there' always be
i care bout her, about her, i feel so hommy
i just dont want to show it clearly.

i don't love you no more ( maybe)
just the situation that you're facing to
makes me harder to forget you,
blurring how i feel for you exactly,
i guess your mommy taking a part of it precisely


i don't love you no more ( maybe)
but if you wanna cry, my shoulder will be here, always be...


Me For Handy Suj

wedding plan questions from Lia

Got This From Lia

Rules:

1. Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with (your name)'s wedding plan!
2. At the end, choose d people u want to be tagged.
3. You have to tag the person who tagged you.
4. If I tagged you, it's because I want to know about u!

1. how old are you?
23 already

2. are you single?
yeah, and im happy

3. at what age do you think you'll get married?
maybe 28, but if i feel that he's the one, come right now, bended on his knees, im so ready right now, hahaha

4. do you think you'll marrying the person you are with now?
you asked me, im single anyway

5. if not, who do you want to marry?
you know who, hahaha,

6. who will be your bridesmaid & bestman?
i want 12 bridesmaids, my closest girlfriend of course and 1 maid of honor, icha, yeah we had a promised
the bestman, maybe i want to borrow 12 models, the hot ones, for my girlfriends, and icha, uhm she got her own, hahahah

7. do you want a garden/beach or traditional wedding?
a ballroom
beach, garden makes me sweating la, wash away the make up

8. where do you plan to go on honeymoon?
world trip (wkwkwk, i guess my future husband like Luke Brandon)

9. how many guests do you think you'll invite?
500 maybe or thousands, depend on the budget la

10. will that include your exes?
off course, special invitations, special seat for them, im gonna seat them in the same table with my future husband's exes..hahahhaa fun eh?!

11. how many layers of cake do you want?
just 3 layers, but the real cake, not the fake

12. when do you want to get married, morning or evening?
yeah, the ceremonial wedding is in the morning, at church, and then evening is the ballroom party

13. name the song/tune you'd like to play at your wedding.
many romantic songs, " the gift" " I do", Uhm " my destiny", and many from jim brickman's, michael buble's.. butttt heyy, thats will not be my wedding, thats me and my future husband wedding's, soo anything depends laa... im not going to be a perfectionist one, married is for alifetime, not just that time...

14. do you prefer fine dining or just normal spoon&fork?knife?
depends on my future husband, anything can , sumpit also can la

15. champagne or red wine?
champagne~ same with lia

16. honeymoon right after the wedding or days after the wedding?
off course days after, or maybe depend on the party i guess, kinda funny to set a plan like, we 're going to honeymoon just right after the party, for a whole world honeymoon trip, just like gone away for maybe 3 months... So who's gonna pay the billsss ??(many bill) hahaha, mother inlaws?? hahah, that will be great plan...

17. money or household items?
money honey

18. how many kids would you like to have?
4, haha i want to have 2 girls and 2 boys..

19. will you record your honeymoon in DVD/CD?
off course la, exclude 'that' moment..
who do you think we were? such an porn star couple, eh??nuts

20. whose wedding plan would you like to know next?
still got a trouble with the link, li...ehehe gonna edit soon.

Me and Transquility

I can't stand to fly, I'm not that naive.....
get my feet back on the ground

This is ....

this is bad or this is so bad


when i think of you, the world gets better
and when im not thinking about you, its stop..
and when i think bout you again, it back, the worlds get better...
OMG what did you do to me...
this is bad, this is bad, this is bad


Me For Handy Suj

The throuth Reveals

Quoted from Harper’s Bazaar Indonesia March 2009

Theres’ a quote from the article about Scarlett Johansson, she was the cover model of this edition. Quite surprising I usually didn’t read the whole up detail article on the Magazine, even that was in Indonesian Language,I just enjoy the Photos, and honestly hard for me to undesrstand for such a magz like Harper’s Bazaar Singapore, I did follow every month Bazaar Singapore, I’ve just enjoyed the brilliant photos actually, hahaha

But this time, I don’t know in my sleepless night, I was reading again my old Harper’s Bazaar March, got it from the last Fashion Festival, The only Harper’s Indonesian I have, haha all I got is Singapore’s version ( because it’s cheaper, S$ 5, hehehe, yeah we should fabulously smart money spender, right?!)

So continued, i was shock, when I was read the article bout the Scarlet Johansson, I was read it randomly actually, then I found out a paragraph, here’s:
Ingin tahu apakah wanita secantik dan sepopuler dia (Scarlett Johansson) juga pernah dikecewakan pria? She said : ” oh ya, saya punya beberapa kali pengalaman seperti itu. Ada pria yang ternyata tidak benar-benar serius pada saya, atau tidak bisa secara emosional terlibat hubungan dengan saya. Jujur saya merasa sedih dan kecewa ketika itu terjadi. Sulit untuk menerima kenyataan bahwa ketika kita mencintai seseorang, tapi ternyata orang tersebut belum siap untuk memasuki hubungan.

We had something in common, the last phrase, was the same problem like mine, finally clear my head up, after few months fogging. Hmm it does make me stronger, when i read that, I feel like.. ohh The beautiful, famous, rich, Scarlett also had that problem too, and She’s hard to accept that fact too. So, after few months I’ve been blaming myself how stupid I am, How lame I was, very slow accepting all the unfair situation. Read that phrase again and again, made me forgive myself about facing the problem, that’s very common problem that faced to every woman in this world, by forgiving myself, I feel that easier for me to get out of this phase, it’s feel now I'm running faster to leave that out behind..

Me for Handy Suj

June 16 on My Bday

June 16th 2009,
Me ,turned 23rd

All I want to say is just a simply Thank You for everything,guys
I realized that we've been grown up each other :)

Thank you for over a hundred wishes, i was so gratitude

When at Takashimaya

Cutest thing in the City
at Takashimaya ground level

Fiat - Barbie
can you count how much barbie in that Fiat?
can win the fiat, and the stuffs inside!!
Awww...
so cute inside and outside
:)

F E D O R A

FEDORA FEDORA
This Seasons, found many nice Fedoras at Warehouse, Forever21, even Gucci did...

Heat of Summer

Summer is Coming Up Babies...
I Always Love Summer

Missing Bali's getaway :(

When I saw ....

i saw a young little beggar when i was on the way to my campus
that girl was staring at her old dirty dress...

i know maybe there's nothing special from that,
we lived in indonesia, that kinda look is very usual for us
But i just didn't know either, at that time,
sumthing crash on mind

the implication

we're the older people, well economically, used to bothering what should i wear for this weekend
or too craving bout one of the branded expensive handbags, heels we're just craving and craving, add another and another lines to our wistlists
but look at the others live, there's a little girl with that old dirty dress, but she still kinda upset and worry because of
there's sumthing put up on her dress, sum up with all the dirtiness

me, actually feel ashamed, a superficial sense, flighty...

yeah
girls, we know could do better than this, right?
im not trying to be shaddy, i do also stil craving about luxury thing, which sumtimes we dont know what make them sooo expensive, we just know the brand, brand, brand, brand, actually we can be better than this, just start with a litle bit better action
for example... i did check up on www.louisvuitton.com, look onthe menu how they make the LV bag and how they suggest people to take care of it...
it was a little experience of understanding, why this things soo expensive, and everyone unconsiously craving for this bag, every minute in the world... without knowing what make this so special.. the making is so special,the material is so special,
im asking you..
so why buy the pirates?? even in over a million rupiah,
if that just selling the brand, not the specific specialities it self...
just like u buy a bottle of evian, without the water inside...
So hope my write will give another point of view bout what we should have


Today's seeds of life

its less important we bother what we should have in this life,
but the most important is, we should bother what we could do, to make what we have become important for life"
-dian prad

Lauren Conrad's candy

The title will be published on June 16th 2009,
wow what a coincidence, thats My birthday
anyone want to gave me as present?? hahaha
FYI, this book can be preordered now on amazon.com
or u'd rather click here
Give Dian a present, haha

it's not you

It wasn't you

i was sure that i want you,
everyday, i think about that, is that really what i want..
now i realize,
i still sure that i want you but
i just want the best of you,
the one who chases me overly,
the one who happily goes to church at least once a week, even he almost forget all the prayer
the one who always accompanies his mom for dinner everyday,
the one who beats the future aggresively,
the one who wants to spend the whole sunday at bookstore with me,

but now what i see wasn't the best of you,
i dont know whether, u've changed or i don't know your real card
whatever that is,
this isn't the best of you, and i just want the best of you.
I'd rather keep my love than loving someone whom i totally don't know anymore.


Me For Handy Suj

H1N1 ~ Flu Babi

More Countries Confirm Cases of A/H1N1 Influenza Infection



WASHINGTON, DC -- April 28, 2009 -- Confirmed cases of A/H1N1 influenza infection have now been confirmed in Israel and New Zealand, bringing the total number of affected countries to 7. Mexico remains the only country with confirmed deaths related to this new strain of influenza, which is also commonly called swine influenza.

Israel has confirmed 1 case, and New Zealand has confirmed 3 cases. The other countries affected include Canada (13 cases), Mexico (26), Scotland (2), Spain (2), and the United States (64). In Mexico, 7 deaths related to A/H1N1 have been confirmed, though more are suspected.

Most cases outside of Mexico appear to be benign, many resolving without treatment; nonetheless, health officials around the world have been warning the situation could change very quickly.


The tally of confirmed cases in the United States jumped to 64 today, largely due to more cases confirmed in New York. All cases remain in the 5 states originally affected: California (10 cases), Kansas (2), New York (45), Ohio (1), and Texas (6). An additional 4 cases have been reported -- all pending CDC confirmation -- bringing the US total to 68.

Monday, the Director-General of the World Health Organization (WHO) raised the influenza pandemic alert from phase 3 to phase 4, indicating the likelihood of a pandemic is increased, though not inevitable. WHO based their decision on the available data on confirmed outbreaks of A/H1N1 influenza in the United States, Mexico, and Canada. The Committee also considered reports of possible spread to additional countries.

Around the world, health agencies are acting very aggressively to mitigate the outbreak. "Containment is not feasible," said Dr. Besser, explaining that the A/H1N1 influenza outbreaks are "diffuse and widespread."
That said, WHO has not issued any travel restrictions or border closures; however, the agency recommends people who are ill to delay international travel and for people developing symptoms following international travel to seek medical attention.


No vaccine for this strain of influenza is available, and development of the vaccine for seasonal influenza is ongoing. When asked if the A/H1N1 strain could be added to the seasonal vaccine under development.

SOURCES: Center for Disease Control and Prevention, Health Canada, European Centre for Disease Prevention and Control

Caring And Loving

Caring or (and) Loving ?

Everytime I miss you, I write a poem for you, especially when I really really miss you, what I can do is just write everything that I feel on the poem. A temporary healing...
I admitted, a part of my life is trying to retain and cover all the things about you, and pushing it all behind... but as much as i could retain, Still, the feeling couldn't lie, I do still care about you, alot...


Me for Handy Suj
There's nothing wrong about caring someone, this isn't a sin,is it??
But,anything for you... I just want you to be happy and give the best for you..
there's no reason, no logical,
It's just Love...

Yesterday, i visited my Friend's baby, Lindsay's baby

its a girl

Nicole Belle Kristanjaya

OMG, you see, she was soo cute,lil angel
born with 2.40 kilos, very small baby,


just like me, when i was born, I was 2.35 kilo, mom said i was struggling to live
but now, after 22 years im struggling with the weight (almost catch 53 kilos,oops)


sO damn cute

Look at how cute she was, when she raised her hand, even in a sleep...hahaha

and I gave the present for her, a big pillow, and a small feeding pillow, for her and mommy.
"Classic Pooh"

actually i want it too..


and so, i was visiting Lindsay with another friend from my ex company too, Elly, a mom of two, So, you know, these two young mommies finally meet, and i'm just the one who haven't married yet.Their conversation was way out of my world, completely, i didn't connect with any of it, i just can say ''OOoo gitu..." " lo iya ta" " oalaa.." yeah lil improvement, and new information for me, la.. grown up faster...
hahaha, and then they finally just say some klise phrase " maka e ndang cepet yaan..." hahaha
and im just speechless...

you know what, My friend Elly, she knows anything about parenting, i have no idea, she knows anything about the product for slimming after pregnancy with the best result and good money, the contraceptions (have you ever heard the contraception just in a plester?? very easy to apply,efficient, and best result also, hahaha, no need condom), the lotion for baby, and the other many products for babies and mommy, also the therapy, she has the complete information...yeah two thumbs up for her,
also she knows about how to get the good babysitter...ckckck
maybe i should take a course with her, if i want to get married, you want to join me also?? haha

Spotted 11 pm Black Canyon SuTos

what a sinful smoked chicken sandwich :(

I found my old never used pearl necklace.... and it could be a bracellet too :)

As Im getting chubbier everyday, yes, i rarely took some pics...
seems like the 'gifo' disease were
healing

then..starting tomorrow
i'm gonna do a diet, called banana diet.
This tips coming from an Auntie, my auntie's friends, said that this diet was created in Japan.
The rule is after wake up until 12 pm, just eat banana and drink lot of water, nothing else, until your stomach full...
you may eat 1-2 bananas
so, just banana and water in the breakfast, until 12pm.

but after that, lunch and dinner you can take whatever you want to eat...
anything, no need to hesitate...whatever, she said whatever, go as crazy as u want...
until u fell asleep...

Sounds a great diet, isn't it?!
the result is 1 month 1 kilo
she said, that diet was very famous in Japan, all girls took that..
and also it has been published in our local magazine, Fit magazine, is it?


Go Battle Tommorow!!!

This is the place, your home, my home

Its hard to admit that everyday i fall for you deeper,
There's no place i'd rather be,
There's no one i wanted to be,
There's only you,
The one till the end.

What am i supposed to do to make sure u're always here,
and never go anywhere else again,
If that day come, i want you promise me ,
you have to swear to our God..
really swear in the name of God,
you never go away from me even just a mile
I regret that i let you go that far,
I should have mad,when you told me you want to go that place,
but I aint do that time
I should have taken you passport and thrown it away at your hotel's closet,
but I aint do that time
I shouldn't have released your hug, so you'll never ,even a step, walk away from our home...
but i also aint do that time

this is our home, our love, yours and mine...
wherever you go,you know you'll always back here,han

Gallery: Topshop New York flagship store opening

from shinystyle.tv

So much partying going on, but with the opening of Topshop finally taking place in the US, can you really blame anyone for trying to drag celebrations out as long as they can?

Prior to Kate Moss and Sir Philip Green officially opening the store on Broadway and Broome yesterday, there was a celebratory dinner held on Wednesday night which was attended by some uber glamorous folk: designers Marc Jacobs and Jason Wu, models Lily Donaldson and Daria Werbowy, Anna Wintour with her daughter Bee Schaffer, Julia Restoin-Roitfeld - offspring of Paris Vogue ed Carine Roitfeld - and singers Jennifer Hudson and um, James Blunt (?!!). A bit of extra glamor - like they needed anymore - was brought by the attendance of A-list couple Jennifer Lopez and hubby Marc Anthony. The couple returned to get their party on at the launch last night, along with Emma Roberts, Lydia Hearst and MC Spank Rock.

I
Just
can't
Wait
The Hills 5th Seasons
will be aired next week

and now i stare
looking everything which seem never fair

i just want you, just you...
not him...
whenever i thought it was you, but that wasn't you:(
i feel bad, since that wasn't fair for him,
but is this the whole up situation fair for me?


you make me learn something,
love is never know about the fairness




im just wishing u were here,han

Chuck Bass

Lately, i really addicted to this figure

CHUCK BASS
yeah...remember how he said his name with an accent
I am Chuck' Chuck bass
Starred by Ed Westwick


This guy soo my type :)
The blend of a devil, manipulative, badboy, bossy, calm, elegant...
My real card..

yeahh.. this is it...
you'll see how Charming he is...
actually , from all the Gossip Girls' boys, for me,
He is the most evrything laa..
even everyone said Nate Archibald is the hansome one
but Chuck Has the everything..
because he Chuck, Chuck bass


the bossy style... whoaa :)

how the story behind Chuck And Blair,
demon and devil,
hahaha
So attractive, full of game, yeah, i like their love story so much


and i like the way he handle the thing until make anyone so pissed off..
yeah really cool, very manipulative, i adore it..hahaha

look how Serena so pissed off bout him, hahahaha, good job, Chuck










and so,I love the way he's playing with his face,
Demon demon demon